Connecting or Connections?

Lately My awareness has been coming across or involved with a lot of people who are struggling within or out of relationships.
Now I don't just mean the married kind, I mean them all between all sorts of people in general. Parents and children, friendships and siblings.

Being a healer myself and openly sensitive to energy I realised I was seeming to attract people struggling to me or suddenly know by a feeling/pull that there is something deeper going on between them.
Not everyone will or can understand consciousness or the fact that initially we are all connected as a collective, but that the people in our lives be it right now, past or future are the ones we learn to evolve and grow from.

Why is it that some parents and children just don't get on while others have the closest connection in the world, why some siblings can never see past the sibling rivalry or why certain friendships or relationships start or end or both sometimes leaving us with big gaping wounded holes that are never to be filled again or simply leave us spiralling for years gaining no closure or peace?

Why do these connections affect us so much while others leave us with a wholeness of peace, clarity, happiness and love like we've never felt before?

Father and daughter, sister and brother, grandparents, teachers, boss's and friends.
Be it a huge love/attraction or a massive repulsion of hate or a huge love that turns to hate, what connects us and what for, what keeps us connected?

Imagine if we had the mechanisms to know and work through the what and why that we are connected in these ways, and to know what it means when people leave our lives for good or enter suddenly. Knowing why we feel these things and being finally able to understand the reasons for it all, to get peace and closure to the why of it all.

Who are we to know what people are here for or to learn, or what we are to learn from each other or what each individual person has gone through in order for them to act a certain way. Imagine if we could step away from the judgement and see clearly the why to gain the knowledge and understanding of it all.

Connections/Connecting/Relationships/Friendships/Family
Well we all have them, don't we???